I was having a conversation with a friend the other day who is grieving the ending of a relationship. It’s a particularly painful ending for him as he was really in love with her and she was perfect for him in virtually every way but one: they were deeply divided over their views and beliefs around spirituality and religion.

As painful as they are, relationships or experiences such as these serve to help you further define for yourself what’s important to you, what you value and what you want your life to look like.

If you choose to ignore them, it’s kind of like painting over a moldy stain on the wall. No matter how many coats of paint you apply, the stain reappears. Yes, you could put a coat of primer over the top of it, but would the stain still be there underneath?

In the same way, when you try to overlook what’s true for you, you might not see it, but it would still be there underneath the surface eroding away at your sense of authenticity, your integrity, your happiness and your well-being.

If on the other hand you choose to embrace these experiences as the defining moments that they are, you can become a more clear and focused magnet for what you want to attract into your life. In the future, you will more readily recognize and resonate with what is and is not a great fit for you.

It doesn’t matter whether it’s a relationship, a career or an opportunity. The same rule applies.

Bottom line, you just won’t waste time on stuff that isn’t a good fit for you! How awesome is that?!

This is why it is so important to be crystal clear on what you value, what you want and what you’re just not willing to settle for.

Even if you think you know what your values are, it’s a good practice to revisit them every now and then. Because while I believe values are determined at a fairly young age, they can change in priority due to life events.

Yesterday I invited you to take advantage of my FREE Chakra Self-Assessment.

If you want to go deeper, I’d like to invite you to an upcoming LIVE virtual event I’m hosting on October 24th called Reboot Your Life Virtual Retreat.

Reboot Your Life

I announced it at my live Transform & Thrive Retreat last month and we already have 13 people registered for it!

You can check it out HERE.

Now, I realize that just because you’re reading my BLOG doesn’t mean you’ve had the opportunity to work with me yet. And how do you know I’ll deliver on what I’m promising?

So I have an introductory limited-time offer for you. If you are one of the next 7 people to register, you can get over 50% off the $297 ticket to attend, AND, I’ll double the coaching time with me!

That means you can attend this live interactive virtual event for only $147 AND you’re getting four hours of support with me and a group of other like-minded spirits AND twice the private coaching time with me!

You can’t beat that!

But the offer is limited to the first 7 people and the offer expires on Monday, October 19th.

I’m keeping the group size relatively small, no more than 30 people, in order to provide more individual support.

To jump in go HERE and enter the code REBOOTINTRO to get your $150 discount AND double your private coaching time.

Don’t wait – the work begins now!

That’s right! As soon as you jump on, you’ll begin receiving some pre-retreat reflection exercises and processes designed to set the foundation for the work we’ll be doing during the retreat on the 24th.

So the sooner you get started, the more time you’ll gift yourself to really immerse yourself in the process.

No matter when you get started though, I’ll do what I can to support you in fully integrating what we cover. It’s why I’ve included private coaching with me and why I have to limit the group size to only 30 people — there’s only so much of me to go around!

So don’t wait! Let’s get started!

I hope to see you at the LIVE Reboot Your Life Virtual Retreat!



P.S. Remember to enter your code REBOOTINTRO at checkout to get your $150 introductory discount AND double your private coaching time.

Debra W. Guttas, Mid-Life Transition Doula™, HTP

“Are you in a mid-life transition? I provide emotional, mental and spiritual support in the ‘birthing’ of your new life path.”

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Debra Guttas is Author of the forthcoming book “Personal & Business Success through the 7 Gateways – Spiritual & Practical Tools for Crafting Your Life from the Inside Out”

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